Monday, February 21, 2011

Wondering if You'll Ever Find Love?

It's a fear most of us have deep down in our guts; the fear that we won't find love.

Not so much that people won't love us.  If you've ever been the recipient of a crush from someone who just doesn't 'do it' for you, you know that being loved by the wrong person can be unsatisfying and even (let's be honest) annoying.  Kind of like having a muddy puppy desperately trying to jump all over you.

No, what we're afraid of missing out on is finding that special person who we love deeply, thoroughly and without restraint; unconditional and passionate love for someone we're crazy about and who loves us back at least as much -- if not more.

Even if you've got someone in your life, love can be a very tricky balancing act. As much as it hurts to admit, love alone may not be enough to even keep you two together, no less build a lasting marriage on. Everything from family illness to infidelity to addictions to sexual, political or religious  incompatibility can eat away at the foundations --  even the very core  -- of your relationship.

Finally Getting Love Right is a place to talk things out, get ideas and support, find resources and in general improve your chances of having (finding and keeping) that lifelong, lasting love we all need.

Questions, comments and topic ideas are welcome here. Even if you just need a shoulder to cry on.

Feel free to drop me a line at:  Cathy@finallygettingloveright.com


ps --

If you're in the middle of a desperate relationship crisis and time is of the essence, there's a resource for saving your relationship which you can check out here.

Let me know how it works for you -- and you have my sincere prayers for a happy make-up.


Best,

Cathy

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